I read the article of Jim Paredes in his website Writing On Air entitled “The Separation of Church and Faith” and gave my comment on it. Here is the commentary I wrote on his response to my first commentary.
Let me start with your
argument on the word artificial or unnatural. This is not an easy
topic to explain. It is quite complicated. I will try to expound on
this briefly here, but for a more detailed explanation, you can visit
my ericnorm.blogspot.com and read the topic Sex: Bakit ka nilikha ng
Dios.
One way to determine
whether a certain act is wrong is when it violates the purpose of the
thing for which it was made for. You don't use scissors for paper and
use it for rubber or else it will become dull. You don't use pliers
to hammer down a nail because that will destroy the pliers. Now when you violate the purpose of God for
which a thing was made, then it is not only wrong but also
sinful. Artificial contraception is immoral because it violates the
purpose of sex namely pro-creation. Sex was created by God for
pro-creation and if you violate it, then you commit a sin. You don't
write with your whiteboard marker with its pointed end covered, you are
defeating its purpose to write. You don't make love with a woman
using a condom, you are defeating the purpose of God. Artificial
contraception has a great effect on the human psyche which renders
sex as a mere pleasurable commodity and not as something sacred.
Since human life is sacred, the pro-creation of human life is also
sacred. Why is sex made pleasurable by God? So we will do it and bear
children, for He said, go and multiply. In the Old Testament, Onan
was punished directly by God with death when he committed the sin of
withdrawal, a method of contraception (Gen 38: 6-10). Perhaps, a
clearer analogy is “why is gluttony sinful”? Why did God make
eating pleasurable? So we will eat and grow healthy, remain strong
and alive. Otherwise, we will grow weak, sickly till we die. Why is
gluttony sinful? Because it violates the purpose of eating which is
to give health and life to our body. If you eat excessively, you grow
fat, become overweight, diabetic and susceptible to many sickness
till you die. Why did God make sex pleasurable? So we will do it and
pro-create more babies. Now, if there is a serious reason to control
pro-creation like having too many children to feed, what can couples
do? They can use the natural family planning method. God has created
the body of the woman in such a way that she is not fertile for
18 days during the month. This is the window which God has provided
to man so he can control birth if necessary. Why not use the artificial
method? If you can use medicine to cure sickness of the body why not
use medicine to control birth? There is a flaw in this logic.
Sickness is a curse of the body while a baby is a blessing from God. If you wish to be biblical about this, suffering and death was the result of sin (Gen. 2:17). Adam and Eve were originally created by God to be immortal beings till they became vulnerable to suffering and death after they sinned (Gen 3:17-27 and Rom 6:23). So sickness is really a curse of the body brought about by our sins and we need to cure this in order to live. But the baby is a blessing from God.
A baby is not a disease which you need to cure. What is the
difference between artificial from natural contraception since it
serves the same purpose? Why is mercy-killing immoral when you
already know that your father will surely die soon? So why not give
him lethal injection immediately to save him from further suffering?
I would like to quote
the following excerpts from Catholic.org to answer these questions:
Couples who use natural family planning (NFP) when
they have a just reason to avoid pregnancy never render their sexual
acts sterile; they never contracept. They track their fertility,
abstain when they are fertile and, if they so desire, embrace when
they are naturally infertile. Readers unfamiliar with modern NFP
methods should note that they are 98-99% effective at avoiding
pregnancy when used properly. Furthermore, any woman, regardless of
the regularity of her cycles, can use NFP successfully. This is not
your grandmother’s “rhythm method.”
To some people this seems like splitting hairs.
“What’s the big difference,” they ask, “between rendering the
union sterile yourself and just waiting until it’s naturally
infertile? The end result is the same: both couples avoid children.”
To which I respond, what’s the big difference between killing
Grandma and just waiting until she dies naturally? End result’s the
same thing: dead Grandma. Yes, but one is a serious sin called
murder, and the other is an act of God.
If a person can tell the difference between
euthanasia and natural death, he can tell the difference between
contraception and NFP. It’s the same difference. I’m not equating
contraception and murder. That’s not the analogy. Rather, Grandma’s
natural death and a woman’s natural period of infertility are both
acts of God. But in killing Grandma or in rendering sex sterile, we
take the powers of life into our own hands — just like the deceiver
originally tempted us to do — and make ourselves like God (see Gn
3:5).
This is why Pope John Paul II concludes that
contraception “is to be judged so profoundly unlawful as never to
be, for any reason, justified. To think or to say the contrary is
equal to maintaining that in human life, situations may arise in
which it is lawful not to recognize God as God” (address Oct. 10,
1983).
If you have resisted the Church’s teaching on
contraception, maybe it’s time to give it some more thought.
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end of quote.
You wrote your adherence to gay-rights,
same-sex-marriage and divorce. In Corinthians 6 : 9, St. Paul said
fornicators, homosexuals, and adulterers will not enter heaven and
in Mark 10 : 2-9, our Lord Jesus Christ explicitly said that divorce is
against the will of God. If you have a different understanding of
these, where do you get your interpretations of the Bible?
Coherent piece Eric. I realized, and I may be mistaken, but I have not really read a pro-contraception blog written with reference to the Bible.
ReplyDeleteThanks for your appreciation. I have not seen any reference in the bible which approves contraception too and I don't there is. The use of artificial contraception has devastating consequences to the moral values of society and I intend to write about it in my next article. Please share this article to your family and friends so that many will pray that the RH bill will be rejected by the Supreme Court. The battle is not over yet.
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